He Did Not Buy You A Car If It’s Not In Your Name!

Let me put you up on some game, ladies: when a man buys you a car the car is in your name PERIOD! Once again, thank you to my big brothers for teaching me not to be a dumb girl who can be easily manipulated.  Let me put you up on some game... Any time [...]

To Stay Or To Go? “If Things Never Change, Would You Be Happy Living The Rest Of Your Life Like This?”

As long as I’m talking, we are good. It’s when I get quiet... I’m done. I talk to try to change things. Once I realize my words aren’t heard or considered, I can’t change anything or make someone see the flaw or fault in the situation, it’s my turn to sit back and evaluate myself, [...]

Never fight a woman over a man!

Ladies, please explain to me the logic of fighting another woman over a cheating man. I understand the logic of both of you fighting him. I will never embarrass myself fighting any woman over a cheating man. (Cherie Johnson Is 2 cool for that.) If women banned together, men would stop. Other women owe you [...]

Applying pressure doesn’t make a man do what you want him to do!

I feel so bad watching women who apply pressure to men so they can "ACT" the way a woman wants them to. Acting doesn't last long. This is a tactic that is truly unrealistic and doesn't work. Hate to break it to you ladies but if he aint spending as much time with you as you [...]

The Reason Women Love Thugs

I am going to be 100% honest. Women love bad boys and thugs because they know how to appreciate women. Most "Thugs" grew up lacking something.  Whether it be: Money Parental Guidance Stability Survival of abuse There are some underlying childhood issues. So, when they come across something or someone who is good to them... [...]

Brothas, I apologize. I love you!

I felt you when you said you can’t share your emotions with a woman because they use it against you! Then, they run and tell your business to their friends. I too have had falling outs with female friends and the first thing they do is go run and tell your secrets. I couldn’t be [...]

TO STAY OR TO GO? “IF THINGS NEVER CHANGE, WOULD YOU BE HAPPY LIVING THE REST OF YOUR LIFE LIKE THIS?”

As long as I’m talking, we are good. It’s when I get quiet... I’m done. I talk to try to change things. Once I realize my words aren’t heard or considered, I can’t change anything or make someone see the flaw or fault in the situation, it’s my turn to sit back and evaluate myself, [...]

APPLYING PRESSURE DOESN’T MAKE A MAN DO WHAT YOU WANT HIM TO DO!

I feel so bad watching women who apply pressure to men so they can "ACT" the way a woman wants them to. Acting doesn't last long. This is a tactic that is truly unrealistic and doesn't work. Hate to break it to you ladies but if he aint spending as much time with you as you [...]