Never fight a woman over a man!

Ladies, please explain to me the logic of fighting another woman over a cheating man. I understand the logic of both of you fighting him. I will never embarrass myself fighting any woman over a cheating man. (Cherie Johnson Is 2 cool for that.) If women banned together, men would stop. Other women owe you [...]

What does success mean to you?

Living in Los Angeles, I realized success means different things to different people. That’s okay! Everyone has the right to have their own success meter that works for them.  Unfortunately, the majority of people I ran across are totally caught up in material. Not only is it how they gage their own success, but how they [...]

“TAKE THAT MAKEUP OFF, GIVE THE HORSE BACK ITS HAIR! “

Here's a Flashback Friday post from 2019. I was told by men I looked up to and adore, "TAKE THAT MAKEUP OFF, GIVE THE HORSE BACK ITS HAIR! " I grew up in a time when men invested time loving women they weren't trying to sleep with! I feel really sorry for a whole generation of [...]

If he doesn’t care ENOUGH to pursue you consistently, he’s NOT serious.

Sis, let me help you out. I grew up being that one girl in the middle of a bunch of boys and the major thing that taught me is men are not afraid to go get what they want. They are natural-born hunters. If he isn't constantly pursuing you, the bottom line is you are not the one [...]

The Magic Begins in the Unknown

Take the chance, what's the worst that can happen? You fail... So what! Get up and try again. I fail OFTEN, and I am Not Ashamed. Take the chance on success, love, marriage, money. (Whatever it is you truly desire) Take the chance of being happy! It is okay and you do not need anyone's approval. Take the [...]

TO STAY OR TO GO? “IF THINGS NEVER CHANGE, WOULD YOU BE HAPPY LIVING THE REST OF YOUR LIFE LIKE THIS?”

As long as I’m talking, we are good. It’s when I get quiet... I’m done. I talk to try to change things. Once I realize my words aren’t heard or considered, I can’t change anything or make someone see the flaw or fault in the situation, it’s my turn to sit back and evaluate myself, [...]