Here's a Flashback Friday post from 2019. I was told by men I looked up to and adore, "TAKE THAT MAKEUP OFF, GIVE THE HORSE BACK ITS HAIR! " I grew up in a time when men invested time loving women they weren't trying to sleep with! I feel really sorry for a whole generation of [...]
Sis, let me help you out. I grew up being that one girl in the middle of a bunch of boys and the major thing that taught me is men are not afraid to go get what they want. They are natural-born hunters. If he isn't constantly pursuing you, the bottom line is you are not the one [...]
Don't ever be afraid to say what you want. There is power in the tongue and what you put into this universe; you get back. Don't downplay the importance of things in your life. Your subconscious will start to believe you do not need it so you will block it from coming into your life. [...]
Take the chance, what's the worst that can happen? You fail... So what! Get up and try again. I fail OFTEN, and I am Not Ashamed. Take the chance on success, love, marriage, money. (Whatever it is you truly desire) Take the chance of being happy! It is okay and you do not need anyone's approval. Take the [...]
I stole this picture of my Brother and Sister. They may kill me for it, but today I wanted to share and celebrate them. They are my inspiration! They are love! It’s so important for us to have real life examples of Black Love and Families. My examples aren’t famous people on TV that I [...]
It's so important to learn to trust your gut! Your head and your heart might lie to you... but your first thought in your gut is never wrong. The universe will give you signs, you just have to be open enough to receive them. I had a choice to make the other day and I went back [...]
As long as I’m talking, we are good. It’s when I get quiet... I’m done. I talk to try to change things. Once I realize my words aren’t heard or considered, I can’t change anything or make someone see the flaw or fault in the situation, it’s my turn to sit back and evaluate myself, [...]
I forgive myself for not knowing better until I knew better! Being happy is a very personal thing that really has nothing to do with anyone else. I was guilty of giving away my power and allowing miserable people to pull me into their funk. Energy transfers: I am guilty of being an empath. I [...]
I am so grateful that sometimes I listen to my mother. One of the best lessons my mother taught me was before you go out of town, clean your house from top to bottom. Don’t leave any trash and wash all your clothes. I just got back home. I am jetlagged and tired as can [...]
What my 20s and 30s taught me was that loaning money was a huge mistake. I expected people to think as I did. I believed every sob story and excuse and overextended myself to people because I cared! When it was time to pay me back, those same people never cared about me. Now my [...]
AFMS: Lets Talk About Everything, Sista to Sista 