I cringe every time I hear someone say good hair. It really pisses me off. Black people have such a stigma about hair. It makes me sick! All hair is good hair, and every hair texture has the ability to grow. Anything you water will grow. Depending on the products you use and your environment, [...]
Why Does Florida Have The Worst Drivers in the USA? My man said, "It's like they all put on blindfolds and say, okay Go!" I have driven in almost every state in the USA and hands down I truly believe Florida is the most uncomfortable, rude, aggressively dumb place I've ever driven. It's not that [...]
Here's a Flashback Friday post from 2020. Emotional intelligence is the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one’s emotions. To be able to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically. I was called “Nonchalant” from someone I care about. This is a term that has been thrown in my face several times, mostly by [...]
I am going to be 100% honest. Women love bad boys and thugs because they know how to appreciate women. Most "Thugs" grew up lacking something. Whether it be: Money Parental Guidance Stability Survival of abuse There are some underlying childhood issues. So, when they come across something or someone who is good to them... [...]
I stole this picture of my Brother and Sister. They may kill me for it, but today I wanted to share and celebrate them. They are my inspiration! They are love! It’s so important for us to have real life examples of Black Love and Families. My examples aren’t famous people on TV that I [...]
Sis, know the difference. If you have a man from your past who reaches out to you sporadically out of the blue, after disappearing for months at a time. Just as you have moved on... Please know that's not your man and he's better left in the past. That's Not Your Man, Sis! He simply tryna [...]
Me blocking you is more about my mental health and happiness than it is about you really. Me blocking you means I chose me over chaos. Relationships and love are selfish. It's less about the other person and more about the way that person in your life makes you feel about yourself! When your presence [...]
I love you, Sista! I love you, Brotha! I support you and want to see you win. As a community, we have so many issues. OUR FIRST BIGGEST ISSUE IS LOVE AND RESPECT. Yes, trauma runs deep in the Black community. Are you ready to break the cycle? If so, it starts with love. My Sistas, this [...]
“I forgot about me” is something that is so natural for a woman. Most of us spend our days caring for everyone around us. We forget to take care of ourselves. Without taking care of ourselves, we are no good to any of those around us. As my daughter is getting older, I am having [...]
It's so important to learn to trust your gut! Your head and your heart might lie to you... but your first thought in your gut is never wrong. The universe will give you signs, you just have to be open enough to receive them. I had a choice to make the other day and I went back [...]
AFMS: Lets Talk About Everything, Sista to Sista 