TO STAY OR TO GO? “IF THINGS NEVER CHANGE, WOULD YOU BE HAPPY LIVING THE REST OF YOUR LIFE LIKE THIS?”

As long as I’m talking, we are good. It’s when I get quiet... I’m done. I talk to try to change things. Once I realize my words aren’t heard or considered, I can’t change anything or make someone see the flaw or fault in the situation, it’s my turn to sit back and evaluate myself, [...]

ME BEING QUIET MAKES EVERYONE COMFORTABLE BUT ME! SORRY, I MATTER THE MOST!

Sistas, say what you want! Put yourself first! I’m tired of worrying about everyone’s comfort level when they ain’t worried about mine. See, here’s the thing. I spent most of my life people pleasing, taking the high road, tryna be the nice one and guess what? “I was fucking miserable” and Nobody cared! Finally, after having [...]

WHAT DOES SUCCESS MEAN TO YOU?

Living in Los Angeles, I realized success means different things to different people. That’s okay! Everyone has the right to have their own success meter that works for them.  Unfortunately, the majority of people I ran across are totally caught up in material. Not only is it how they gage their own success, but how they [...]

FOLLOW PEOPLE WHO INSPIRE YOU

Let’s face it: social media is the best time waster on earth right now. It has us all captivated, where we don’t have a clue how much time we are really spending there. I admit... I got it bad, way too much of my time is being spent looking at my phone. I get lost [...]