Here's a Flashback Friday post from 2020. Emotional intelligence is the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one’s emotions. To be able to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically. I was called “Nonchalant” from someone I care about. This is a term that has been thrown in my face several times, mostly by [...]
Sis, let me help you out. I grew up being that one girl in the middle of a bunch of boys and the major thing that taught me is men are not afraid to go get what they want. They are natural-born hunters. If he isn't constantly pursuing you, the bottom line is you are not the one [...]
Don't ever be afraid to say what you want. There is power in the tongue and what you put into this universe; you get back. Don't downplay the importance of things in your life. Your subconscious will start to believe you do not need it so you will block it from coming into your life. [...]
Take the chance, what's the worst that can happen? You fail... So what! Get up and try again. I fail OFTEN, and I am Not Ashamed. Take the chance on success, love, marriage, money. (Whatever it is you truly desire) Take the chance of being happy! It is okay and you do not need anyone's approval. Take the [...]
I am going to be 100% honest. Women love bad boys and thugs because they know how to appreciate women. Most "Thugs" grew up lacking something. Whether it be: Money Parental Guidance Stability Survival of abuse There are some underlying childhood issues. So, when they come across something or someone who is good to them... [...]
I stole this picture of my Brother and Sister. They may kill me for it, but today I wanted to share and celebrate them. They are my inspiration! They are love! It’s so important for us to have real life examples of Black Love and Families. My examples aren’t famous people on TV that I [...]
Sis, know the difference. If you have a man from your past who reaches out to you sporadically out of the blue, after disappearing for months at a time. Just as you have moved on... Please know that's not your man and he's better left in the past. That's Not Your Man, Sis! He simply tryna [...]
Me blocking you is more about my mental health and happiness than it is about you really. Me blocking you means I chose me over chaos. Relationships and love are selfish. It's less about the other person and more about the way that person in your life makes you feel about yourself! When your presence [...]
I felt you when you said you can’t share your emotions with a woman because they use it against you! Then, they run and tell your business to their friends. I too have had falling outs with female friends and the first thing they do is go run and tell your secrets. I couldn’t be [...]
I love you, Sista! I love you, Brotha! I support you and want to see you win. As a community, we have so many issues. OUR FIRST BIGGEST ISSUE IS LOVE AND RESPECT. Yes, trauma runs deep in the Black community. Are you ready to break the cycle? If so, it starts with love. My Sistas, this [...]
AFMS: Lets Talk About Everything, Sista to Sista 