As long as I’m talking, we are good. It’s when I get quiet... I’m done. I talk to try to change things. Once I realize my words aren’t heard or considered, I can’t change anything or make someone see the flaw or fault in the situation, it’s my turn to sit back and evaluate myself, [...]
Sistas, say what you want! Put yourself first! I’m tired of worrying about everyone’s comfort level when they ain’t worried about mine. See, here’s the thing. I spent most of my life people pleasing, taking the high road, tryna be the nice one and guess what? “I was fucking miserable” and Nobody cared! Finally, after having [...]
A FRESH START Get up with the alarm. NO SNOOZE. If you hit the snooze button for 20 minutes, you have already wasted 20 minutes of your day. Might not seem like much but once you do that times 5…Bingo. You can accomplish a lot in 20 minutes. You will stop saying, “I need more [...]
I often remind myself, the picture in an artist mind is not often what’s translated on canvas, but it doesn’t make it less beautiful. ~ Cherie Here's a #flashbackfriday post with a helpful reminder about life. (This was written pre-pandemic.) I had to learn to let go and live. Life just doesn’t always move as [...]
We all have things to do! We all are over booked. For the life of me I can’t understand why people are okay with being late. Or okay with notoriously being late. I have no tolerance for it. Once or twice, I will give you a 15-minute grace period, after that I am finished. The [...]
Here's a flashback to a post from 2018. One of the most powerful things I learned from Dr. Dre was how to manifest my reality! "Anything I can think of, I can have." He took the time to have one of the most important conversations in my life with me. A socially awkward young girl [...]
Sometimes we don’t get what we want! That’s a good thing. Sometimes we want things for the surface view. Meaning we don’t do our research or look into it deeply enough to know if it’s really for us or not. Think about it, if the Universe would have given you everything you asked for, 9 [...]
Living in Los Angeles, I realized success means different things to different people. That’s okay! Everyone has the right to have their own success meter that works for them. Unfortunately, the majority of people I ran across are totally caught up in material. Not only is it how they gage their own success, but how they [...]
There is a man that I know, who honestly has been tryna get at me for many, many years. We just never clicked. I am in no way attracted to his personality, but we have made money together. 6 figure money a few times. So, every so often when I hear from him, I respond. [...]
Let’s face it: social media is the best time waster on earth right now. It has us all captivated, where we don’t have a clue how much time we are really spending there. I admit... I got it bad, way too much of my time is being spent looking at my phone. I get lost [...]
AFMS: Lets Talk About Everything, Sista to Sista 