Nobody else can make me have a bad day

Here's a Flashback Friday post from 2020. Emotional intelligence is the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one’s emotions. To be able to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically. I was called “Nonchalant” from someone I care about. This is a term that has been thrown in my face several times, mostly by [...]

If he doesn’t care ENOUGH to pursue you consistently, he’s NOT serious.

Sis, let me help you out. I grew up being that one girl in the middle of a bunch of boys and the major thing that taught me is men are not afraid to go get what they want. They are natural-born hunters. If he isn't constantly pursuing you, the bottom line is you are not the one [...]

The Magic Begins in the Unknown

Take the chance, what's the worst that can happen? You fail... So what! Get up and try again. I fail OFTEN, and I am Not Ashamed. Take the chance on success, love, marriage, money. (Whatever it is you truly desire) Take the chance of being happy! It is okay and you do not need anyone's approval. Take the [...]

The Reason Women Love Thugs

I am going to be 100% honest. Women love bad boys and thugs because they know how to appreciate women. Most "Thugs" grew up lacking something.  Whether it be: Money Parental Guidance Stability Survival of abuse There are some underlying childhood issues. So, when they come across something or someone who is good to them... [...]

He doesn’t want you! He wants to know he has access to you!

Sis, know the difference. If you have a man from your past who reaches out to you sporadically out of the blue, after disappearing for months at a time. Just as you have moved on... Please know that's not your man and he's better left in the past. That's Not Your Man, Sis! He simply tryna [...]

We are all we got. Let’s start loving and supporting each other!

I love you, Sista! I love you, Brotha! I support you and want to see you win. As a community, we have so many issues. OUR FIRST BIGGEST ISSUE IS LOVE AND RESPECT. Yes, trauma runs deep in the Black community. Are you ready to break the cycle? If so, it starts with love. My Sistas, this [...]