I am attracted to Alpha Men but what I realize is true alphas are the Silent type. They will show you, not try to convince you.
Individuals who have an overinflated sense of their own importance or exhibit excessive dominance and aggression can certainly be unappealing to me and many people. This can be true regardless of whether the individual in question identifies as an “alpha male” or not.
It’s true that an individual’s actions and behaviors can often speak louder than their words and demonstrating traits like kindness, empathy, and respect for others can be more meaningful indicators of one’s character than simply identifying oneself as an “alpha male.
In some cases, individuals who present themselves as “alpha males” may be trying to compensate for feelings of insecurity or inadequacy. This can manifest in a number of ways, such as being overly controlling, dismissive of others’ opinions, or excessively competitive. These behaviors can be a turn-off for many people, as they can be perceived as disrespectful or even abusive.
It’s important to remember that every person is unique, and what one person finds attractive or unappealing may not be the same for another. However, in general, individuals who exhibit kindness, empathy, and respect for others tend to be more appealing to a wider range of people than those who act overly dominant or aggressive.